The Other Side of BPD
As only one has who has been there and made it back can, A.J. Mahari who had BPD and recovered, is the adult child of 2 borderline parents and has been in the non borderline role in a relationship with someone with BPD/NPD provides a uniquely full-circle 360 insight into the reality of BPD - from both sides.
A.J. Mahari's Ebooks
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Articles For Non Borderlines © A.J. Mahari
Family members, loved ones, relationship or ex-relationship partners of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder - non borderlines - need to find their own understanding, coping techniques, and often their own recovery due to the very painful and emotionally damaging reality of being on the other side of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder.
 | Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder - The Lost Self - The Impact of The Core Wound of AbandonmentBy: A.J. Mahari © September 2008 Published by PhoenixRising Publications. Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder - The Lost Self - The Impact of The Core Wound of Abandonment A.J. Mahari examines, explores, and explains the aspects of the impact of the core wound of abandonment on those with Borderline Personality Disorder and its connection to The Lost Self in those with BPD and the effects of this lost self on the experience of those with BPD. more... Price: $12.99 |
A.J. Mahari is currently writing a memoir about her life and experience as a person who had two parents with Borderline Personality Disorder, as a person who was diagnosed herself with BPD at the age of 19 and from her perspective as someone who has recovered from BPD. There is a new section on her BPD Blog called The Diary - My Borderline Years
2008 Articles © A.J. Mahari unless denoted as written by others
| BPD and Abuse | Family Members Abused |
Why Do Borderlines Often Discuss Their Troubled Pasts Repeatedly?
Several New Articles on BPD by A.J. Mahari
Is Your BPD Loved One Serious About Therapy? What Every Family Member and Loved One with Someone With BPD in Their Lives Needs to Know.
A borderlines who is serious about therapy will be responsible enough to make their appointments, be honest with their therapists, and do any and all suggested homework. Borderlines serious about treatment will pursue it, and make a commitment to it.
Anything less than this is a waste of time and money, typically with the borderline just going through the motions to placate someone else.
It is important for any family member or relationship partner of borderline to be able to evaluate how their loved one with borderline personality disorder (BPD) is progressing in terms of recovery. As told by AJ. Mahari, a borderline that began to make significant progress on her recovery in her mid- 30s; a process that took her almost 8 years to complete. This account of her recovery is "eye opening".
- Purchase all 3 of ebooks for NON BORDERLINES or 3 Non Borderline Ebooks packaged together with audio.
I have written and made available here for free over 100 articles on and about Borderline Personality Disorder, from my perspective as a person who has recovered from Borderline Personality Disorder - from the inside out.
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